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learning to listen

Thank you for all the great responses to Confessions of a Yoga Blogger.  Brilliant to see so much Bryan Adams love out there! Very jealous of those of you who have seen him live ;)

And so, on with today’s post…

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My first post-it for Operation Beautiful!

Last week I was exhausted.  I don’t know why but I felt bone tired all week.  Instead of my regular yoga practice I took some time out for Yoga Nidra.

I don’t know if you’ve ever practiced Yoga Nidra before dear readers, but if you ever get a chance you must.  I insist.  There’s no lotus, no backbends, not twisting.  All you have to do it lie there and listen.  (I believe there are plenty of free downloads on the wonderful web – Google is your friend!)

Yoga Nidra is a meditation/deep relaxation first discovered by Swami Satyananda Saraswati when he was living with his Guru Swami Shivananda in Rishikesh. The idea is that during this “Yogic Sleep” the body rests whilst the mind remains active and attentive to the voice of the teacher (or the voice on the CD) which takes you on a guided voyage around your body.  It works on some very powerful levels, and has been proven to significantly reduce stress, tension and anxiety.  Seriously, what more could you want?

To me though, the most powerful part of the practice of Yoga Nidra is the Sankalpa.  This is a positive affirmation or resolve that you make three times at the beginning and end of the practice.  I don’t know how this works, but it does.  Every Sankalpa that I have affirmed during Yoga Nidra has happened, from quitting smoking to setting up my own yoga teaching business.

I think it’s all about listening to the right things.  Listening to the positive rather than the negative self talk.  The practice of Yoga Nidra, and especially the Sankalpa makes us listen to what we really want, rather than what we think we want and makes us word our intentions in a positive way.

Listening to positivity both from our own internal voice and from those around us is so important.  And this is where Caitlin’s Operation Beautiful website (and the book to be released in the autumn) comes in.  Caitlin asks us to change the way we see and to let go of “Fat Talk” and remember that we are beautiful, every day in every way. If you haven’t checked out Operation Beautiful yet, make sure you do today!

So, dear readers, let’s try to cut out the negative self talk, let’s try to let go of those voices in our heads that tell us we are not worthy of this, or that we can’t do this, or that we are hopeless or useless (and yes, I have been guilty of thinking all of these things about myself).  It’s not going to be easy and we have to take one day at a time but if we just start to notice when we are talking down to ourselves and try to replace those negative statements with positive ones we can create the lives we want and, as Jim Morrisson said, “break on through to the other side”.

All we have to do is learn to listen.

What have you heard recently?

On the Yoga Sutras (well the first three verses anyway!)

On a yoga day yesterday with Helena del Pino we talked about Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras, which reminded me of that “OMG Eureka” moment when I first studied these and realised that it was all right there in those first three verses. Everything. The whole point of yoga.

atha yoganusasanam
yogah citta vrtti nirodhah
tada drastuh svarupe avasthanam

OK so I’m going to try and translate that as best I can. :) We need to commit to our practice and to learning from a teacher (even when we are teachers ourselves). We need to restrain the movements of the mind to allow the mind to be clear and calm. Then we will be able to see ourselves as we really are.

Amazingly simple and pretty awesome huh? Yet so hard. So hard! :)

To even begin to achieve this we need discipline and routine. We need to start to become self aware – we can only change if we are aware of what needs to be changed. We need to surrender – be aware that we just cannot control EVERYTHING.

We need to look after our bodies and our minds together. Sometimes we need to turn all the external stimuli off completely and listen to our bodies and our minds because they contain the real information that is important to our lives. But there is always so much external stimuli. Even as I type this I can hear the hum of my laptop. The sound of my neighbours’ (extremely loud) TV. We are constantly bombarded by news feeds, and twitter links and blogs (and yes I see the irony) and music and muzak and advertising and ….. oh the list is endless. This very typically western situation is why Krishnamacharya believed that the only real way to meditate in the West was by using Vedic chanting (it’s extremely hard to get distracted when you’re trying to pronounce Sanskrit correctly).

Sometimes I love technology. But most times it drives me wild with the constant bombardment of things I don’t necessarily want to be bombarded with. It is why over the last few months I have been trying my hardest to cut many forms of reporting and media from my life.

It’s hard but I want to find the right balance.

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